This person believes having people near him will solve his problems. He sees that those that have nice cars have lots of friends. He is convinced he needs a nice car, but they cost a lot of money. He tries to figure a way to make a lot of money. He decides he will work a couple of jobs to get up the money. But of course, because he is working so hard, he even has less friends.
The root lie is thinking having people around him will satisfy him. All the other matters and decisions listed above are lies too. They run counter to God's will. But they live off the insecurity of the first. If one really wants to solve this person's worry problems, they need to get down to the root lie.
The goals are the same for this person. But her solution is different. She notices those that are beautiful have lots of friends. So she spends lots of money and time improving her looks.
She goes into debt and poor health trying to fulfill the false promise: those that have beauty have lots of friends. It doesn't work out so easy! She is disillusioned.
The root lie that friends can satisfy that deep need of intimacy is not fulfilled. She needs to find God and meet with Him. He will satisfy that need as designed.