Problems of a little lust in ones marriage
"Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her catch you with her eyelids."
Proverbs 6:25
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Problems of lusting
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Consequences of a little lust
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- I do not cherish my wife.
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My wife is not counted special and begins to dress worse, pay less attention to home, etc.
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- I rather be in different circumstances than at home with my wife.
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I am not committed to the home and relationships with wife and children. Out more with buddies, sports, cars, etc.
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- My wife does not satisfy me.
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I begin to experiment in mind and in body.
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- I live by feelings rather than principle.
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I lose the discipline that provides the ability to obey, feel confident and accomplish great things for God.
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- I prefer self over God.
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God will discipline me.
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- I am willing to live a lie.
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Relationships with wife and others are superficial and boring.
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- I doubt whether God's ways are best.
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No real interest in spiritual matters and therefore no spiritual leadership at home (or church).
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- I do not fear the consequences of my lust.
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My lust problem grows. Marriage is further threatened. |
If righteousness dictates the practice of love, this means that any sort of compromise will cause us to fail in our duties to God and man. If we tolerate a little lust, we simply cannot say that we are loving our wives. We need to strive for total purity.