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God's peace can help us live above anxieties as we learn to trust in Him!

The Lord Your Healer: 

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch by Paul J. Bucknell

Newest! The Lord Your Healer

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch

First step of discipleship
revive devotions
Advanced Discipleship

The Bible Teaching Commentary on Genesis: The Book of Foundations

Commentaries that specialize on training the teacher!

Overcoming Anxiety: Finding Peace, Discovering God


Christian Premarital Counseling Manual for Counselors

- Preparing the Two to Be One -

Christian Premarital Counseling

Wise Decision Making in a Marriage

Session #3

Rev. Paul J. Bucknell

Intro | Design | Communication | Decisions | Finances | Differences | Intimacy
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'Wise Decision Maker in a Marriage' (Session #3) helps an engaged couple learn to make bigger decisions ahead of time as well as resolve misunderstandings in a biblical manner. Discussing family planning is provided as one topic that needs to be resolved earlier on.

The couple must positively use the scriptures to guide their decisions and conversation.They will differ, but each opinion is to be respected. One needs to go to God’s word to better understand why one should make a certain decision.

Time Distribution

Discuss any Homework (5-20’).

- Any forms from last week? (Discuss now or during lesson).

- Are they reading the book? Anything interesting?

- Are they reading God’s Word and praying together?

Discuss Handout #3 (60’)

Plan ahead

Don’t get caught offguard. Look ahead .... Further discussion is found in the book.

Building a Great MarriagePurchase or download the book 'Building a Greart Marriage'You can order the Building a Great Marriage printed seminar materials including handouts at the BFF Resource Center. Or even bettr get the BFF Marriage Training Library which includes the Christian Premarital Counseling as well as all of our many marriage resources like this book and its powerpoints, handouts, audios and videos.


We will next look at session #4, Finances & Marriage Next -

Preparing the needed biblical understanding, convictions and attitudes that enable singles to prepare for great marriages even if a prospective mate is not in sight!

Birth Control & Christian Family Planning: Our Personal Journey Birth Control & Christian Family Planning: Our Personal Journey

Share the journey how God led us from having a typical birth control and family planning mentality to a biblical one regarding having children along with the different ways each philosopy and practice shaped our lives.

Getting Married Right! Getting Married Right!
Build your marriage on God's will for your lives by focusing on five areas of concern.

Getting Married Right! Building a Great Marriage
Special emphasis is on identifying the problems to poor marriages and three keys to great marriages.

Getting Married Right! Adjusting to Marriage
Understand the five critical steps to setting up a great marriage!

Benefits of Sexual Purity Benefits of Sexual Purity
Five great benefits to staying pure!

Birth Control & Christian Family Planning Birth Control & Christian Family Planning
Birth control and family planning has largely been accepted around the world as normal and good. This is the first article of three that challenge the basic assumptions underlying family planning. Make sure you read of our personal journey away from using family planning practices.

Understanding Pleasure in Marriage and Life Understanding Pleasure in Marriage and Life
Find out the right place pleasure is to have in your marriage and sexual intimacies. Avoid extremes of rejection, shunning or being ruled by pleasure.

THE DISCOVERY OF LOVE : Human Love and Divine Love The Discovery of Love
Many marriages are running on human love. This is why they are failing to bring the fulfillment they were supposed to. Discover the difference between human and divine love.

Your Goal for Marriage Your Goal for Marriage
What is your goal of marriage? Why is it that the dream of a perfect union so often results in two separated lives?

Defending the Design of Marriage Defending the Design of Marriage
Six evidences of the design of marriage are given. To the degree a couple follows God's design, the more beautiful their marriage will be.

Family Planning & Birth ControlFamily Planning & Birth Control Family Planning & Birth Control
Birth control has greatly shaped our modern society. Is it right to limit the number of children that we have? What should be the right attitude to having children? Does God really care whether we have two or five children? Does the Bible really say anything about family planning and birth control?

Fear of God & Avoiding Fornication Fear of God & Avoiding Fornication
Is purity hard? Then think through the way God deals with fornication.

The Marriage Breakdown The Marriage Breakdown
Marriage is under siege! Unbiblical views are infiltrating the young bride and bridegroom's mindset.

Scriptures typically quoted from the New American Standard Bible unless noted: (C) Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1988

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