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Christian Premarital Counseling

Christian Premarital Counseling

Preparing the Two to Be One

Rev. Paul J. Bucknell
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Everything you need to conduct premarital counseling

I recommend Christian premarital counseling for every couple. Just think of it. The great God who designed male and female also designed marriage. He knows how marriage best works! Why not see what He has to say?

The question is, "How does one conduct premarital counseling?" Many have not received any training in this area. I faced this same problem. As a pastor, I had to figure out how to conduct premarital counseling. The benefits were plainly evident. Session by session, couple by couple, I finally figured out a plan. I have since then enhanced it a bit and made it available to others. Everthing I need is here including forms.

Purpose: To aid pastors, elders and other church leaders involved in premarital counseling to challenge and prepare engaged couples to have good and godly marriages.

This premarital counseling manual is just the series to help you understand how to handle Christian premarital counseling. There are not many premarital counseling materials around. This series aids pastors, elders and other church leaders involved in premarital counseling to challenge and prepare engaged couples to have good and godly marriages.

This series includes handouts, worksheets and even an introductory questionnaire for the couple. Feel free to edit and reshape the material for your own situation.

Here is how I do it in 6 sessions. Instructions, explanations, handouts and forms included.

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Contents of

Christian Premarital Counseling

Preparing the Two to Be One

Premarital Counseling Lessons

Forms and Reading

#0 Introduction to Premarital Counseling

  • Handout#0 Premarital Counseling Introduction

#1 The Design of Marriage

  • Handout#1 Design of Marriage
  • Premarital Questionnaire

#2 Principles of Godly Communication

  • Handout #2 Principles of Godly Communication
  • Discovering Values
  • Roles Husband-Wife

#3 Wise Decision-making

  • Handout #3 Wise Decision-making
  • Advice for Engaged Couples
  • In-Law Advice

#4 Finances & Marriage

  • Handout #4 Finances & Marriage
  • Financial Perspectives
  • First Year Budget

#5 Understanding our Differences

  • Handout #5 Understanding our Differences
  • Temperament Charts (For self)
  • Temperament Charts (For others)

#6 Preparations for Intimacy

  • Handout #6 Preparations for Intimacy
  • Have a good honeymoon! (no handout - Relax!)


About us!

Bucknell family 2009We (Paul & Linda) have been married 30+ wonderful years and have eight wonderful children!

Paul has been involved in church planting, pastoring and developing training materials to build up the church of God.

Family life has been enriching. The joy from our eight children deepens even further with visits from our first grandson.

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